His Parents Sent This Teen To Jail To “Teach Him A Lesson” And Now They’ll Never See Him Again

Almost a decade has passed since the tragic death of Liam Ashley, a 17-year-old from Auckland's North Shore, who lost his life at the hands of George Baker, a high-risk offender.

Almost a decade has passed since the tragic death of Liam Ashley, a 17-year-old from Auckland’s North Shore, who lost his life at the hands of George Baker, a high-risk offender. The incident occurred in August 2006 when Baker, along with Liam and another man, was being transported to Auckland Central Remand Prison. Now, Liam’s parents, Ian and Lorraine Ashley, have shared a remarkable journey of forgiveness, finding solace in the midst of their grief.

Liam’s untimely demise was the culmination of a series of events that began when he took his mother’s car without permission. Seeking to impart a lesson about responsibility, Ian and Lorraine Ashley pressed charges and advocated for their son to spend a night in the cells. Tragically, this decision led to Liam’s fateful encounter with George Baker.

For years, the anguish of their son’s death haunted Liam’s parents. Sleepless nights and the weight of their grief took a toll on their well-being. However, a transformative realization changed the trajectory of their healing journey. Speaking to One News, Ian Ashley shared his epiphany, saying, “I had seven years of not sleeping at all. But then when I came to a realization that George was slowly killing me, if I didn’t release him from me, I would never find happiness again.”

This newfound insight led to a profound decision—to forgive the man responsible for their son’s death. Lorraine Ashley expressed the powerful impact of forgiveness, explaining that it brought a sense of peace. She noted the challenge of forgiving oneself, particularly for the monumental mistake they had made. The couple’s journey toward forgiveness was facilitated by their relocation to Australia, where they sought a fresh start.

In addition to their geographical move, the Ashleys discovered a renewed faith in God. This spiritual transformation played a pivotal role in their ability to find forgiveness and embrace healing. Their faith provided a lens through which they could view their grief and navigate their emotions.

 

Interestingly, Ian Ashley also expressed empathy for George Baker, despite the tragedy he had caused. Baker’s subsequent reoffenses during his time behind bars brought a different perspective to the Ashleys’ journey. Ian voiced his genuine concern for Baker’s well-being, revealing, “I’m genuinely worried about George and where he is in life. Genuinely worried. I heard that he’s in 23-hour lockdown and still nine years later…that he has been suffering. I actually feel sorry for him.”

The Ashley family’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of forgiveness. Despite enduring one of the most painful experiences imaginable, they have managed to find empathy and understanding even for the one who caused them immeasurable pain. Their story serves as a reminder that healing is a complex and deeply personal process, and that forgiveness can be a catalyst for profound change in the lives of both the forgiver and the forgiven.